Why are we counseled to wait until we're 16 to date? The guideline against dating before 16 is based on principles of physical, emotional, and spiritual safety. In For the Strength of Youth it says, "Do not date until you are at least 16 years old. Dating before then can lead to immorality, limit the number of other young people you meet, and deprive you of experiences that will help you choose an eternal partner" ([2001], 24).